Rants!

Let me rant:

Sex in movies: 

If you want true love, you should have sex. Once you find your true love, find a flat surface and fuck each other brains out. 

This is what Hollywood teaching us. Non-platonic Love is non-existent without sex. Sometimes, even platonic love would be accented with sex.

I believe that making love is a good thing. Hell, humans literally cannot live without sex. The people who teach you that sex is dirty is demented. Sex is good. Fuck is entertaining. And ideally, love between to paramours should be complimented with sex.

By The Jader

I also believe, for myself, in post-marital sex. Men are sexual beings. Women take a lot of self-convincing and preparation to ready themselves for sex. Men, generally, just need a hole. Sometimes, not even that. And it's our natural instinct to lie, cheat, rape and pillage for sex. It is also our natural instinct to shun commitments. What sets the human males from animals is our ability to deny those particular instincts, though most of us do not exercise it. It's not a stereotype, gents, it's evolutionary biology. 

There's couples out there, who think they're so in love with their partners that they give in to the lust. In my personal secular opinion, there's nothing wrong with that. But are you sure that the man involved is really in love with you? 

Try this: a week after the next time you have sex, tell him that you missed your period and the home kit says you're pregnant, see how he reacts. 

90% of men who convince you to abort within minutes of the announcement is not thinking how the child would change your life, he's thinking of how it'd change HIS life. You're just his fuck toy. Yeah, maybe he has some attachment to you that can be called love but at that stage, the attachment is not strong enough and can be cut off in case of emergencies like this. 

Hell, I say 90% because I don't want to be proven wrong only. I believe it's 100%. I mean, if you do that, it's bloody obvious to the whole world that you're an asshole who's using the girl, even if the latter is too blinded by 'love' to see that simple fact. Sadly, that is usually the case, though.

Marriage is the ultimate commitment for the present-day society. If the man can freely choose to overcome every urge coded in every DNA in every cell of his body to commit to this, that man loves you. Unless he's doing it for the wrong reasons, that is. Humans are also different from animals in the sense that they'd lie, cheat, rape and pillage for any goal at all. 

That being said, I envy friends who do have sex because they found people they truly trust and the males are not taking advantage. Not because they get to do it... well, maybe a bit... but rather, because they find someone that is worthy of that trust... okay, a lot, jeez get off my back, already.  

Back to the movies: Yeah, virgins don't find true love in Hollywood. They used to, but after Titanic, the virgin population in Hollywood is 0. That's a bit sad, isn't it? This is a brainwashing that no one wants to raise an issue with for fear of being called a prude. 

I mean, watch Benjamin Button. The main plot is love. But watch that movie again. There's no real romance, there's a lot of rolling around naked. EVERY romantic scene in that movie involves sex in some kind. I bet you didn't realize that until I told you, didja? Hell, I didn't even realize that until I read Roger Ebert's review. That is how deeply embedded love=sex is in our minds. [Mr Ebert is as old as dinosaurs, that's why he managed to spot that fact]

Oh, and need I remind anyone of the long, long, long sex scene in 300? How many positions they fit in the single sex scene of the movie? Oh and how about Red Cliff part 1? I watched the censored version and I got it, they love each other. The sex scene was totally unnecessary! Last Samurai also like that, what the hell.

I wanted to post more one but malas la already... Need to begin my neurology case history and it's 12.13 a.m. already! It's due tomorrow, summore. Haih... 

Edit:

This quote is too good not to include it. 

"Definition: 'Love' is making a shot to the knees of a target 120 kilometers away using an Aratech sniper rifle with a tri-light scope. Statement: This definition, I am told, is subject to interpretation. Obviously, love is a matter of odds. Not many meatbags could make such a shot, and fewer would derive love from it. Yet for me, love is knowing your target, putting them in your targeting reticle, and together, achieving a singular purpose, against statistically long odds."

- HK-47, Protocol/Assassin Droid